INFOGRAPHIC: Table Setting Etiquette:
Formal, Young Adult, and Child-Friendly Table Arrangements

The MAG - 07.23

Mastering Table Settings: A Guide to Formal, Young Adult, and Kid-Friendly Dining Arrangements

Setting the Table: From Formal Dining to Family-Friendly and Kids' Feasts

Setting the table and the space can vary depending on the formality of the occasion and the age group of the people involved. Here are guidelines for setting a formal table, a table for young adults, and a table for children:

 

1. Formal Table Setting:

A formal table setting is typically used for special occasions, such as weddings, elegant dinners, or fancy celebrations.

a. Placement:

• Start with a clean and well-ironed tablecloth as the base.
• Place chargers (decorative dinner plates) in the center of each setting.
• Position the dinner plate in the center of the charger.
• Place a salad plate or soup bowl on top of the dinner plate if needed.
• Lay a folded cloth napkin on top of the charger.

b. Utensils:

Arrange utensils in order of use, working from the outside in.

• On the right side of the plate, place the knife closest to the plate, followed by the spoon.
• On the left side of the plate, place the fork(s) in order of use.
• Place a dessert fork and spoon horizontally above the charger.

c. Glassware:

• Place the water glass above the knife.
• Arrange wine glasses to the right of the water glass.

d. Additional Settings:

• Add a bread plate to the left of the charger with a butter knife.
• Include a coffee cup and saucer to the right of the charger if coffee or tea will be served.

e. Final Touches:

• Fold the napkin neatly or use napkin rings.
• Place name cards or a seating chart if necessary.

 

2. Young Adult Table Setting:

A more casual setting suitable for gatherings with friends or young adults.

a. Placement:

• Use a clean tablecloth or placemats.
• Place a dinner plate at the center of each setting.
• Lay a folded napkin next to the dinner plate.

b. Utensils:

• Include a fork and knife on the right side of the plate.
• Position a spoon to the right of the knife.
• Place a dessert fork or spoon horizontally above the dinner plate.

c. Glassware:

• Set a water glass above the knife.

d. Additional Settings:

• Keep it simple, omitting unnecessary extras.
• Add a cloth napkin or paper napkins to the side.

 

3. Table Setting for Children:

A child-friendly setting for kids' meals or parties.

a. Placement:

• Use kid-friendly placemats or a clean tablecloth.
• Place a child-sized plate at the center of each setting.

b. Utensils:

• Include a small fork and knife on the right side.
• Position a small spoon to the right of the knife.

c. Glassware:

• Use a durable plastic or kid-sized glass for water or juice.

d. Additional Settings:

• Add a child-sized cup with a lid and straw if needed.
• Include child-friendly napkins or wipes for spills.

e. Fun Touches:

Consider using themed plates, utensils, or placemats to make it more engaging for children.
Remember to adjust the setting to the specific occasion and preferences of your guests, and always prioritize safety when setting the table for children, ensuring that utensils and glassware are age-appropriate.